Monday, April 27, 2009

Fun Running

Yesterday we took part in the North Glasgow 5K Fun Run. I was surprised to see how many people turned out on what was a rather grey day. About 2,500 people attended, if you count both spectators and participants. The atmosphere was great and it was encouraging to see a positive reaction to the idea of healthier living. The organisers set up a "Health and Wellbeing Village" where local community groups offered information about cancer screening, how to quit smoking, stopping alcohol abuse, and healthy eating. The anti-smoking campaigners had even entered a man dressed as a cigarette to help draw attention to their message (there was nothing as outlandish as the London Marathon, but it was encouraging to see that the British pastime of combining running with fancy dress remains popular).

The event was organised by the North Glasgow Healthy Living Community. After living in Springburn for a while, it’s all too easy to dismiss the name of this organisation as an oxymoron, but events like the NG5K are a start. The event is now in its fifth year and it’s clear that the message is, slowly but surely, getting out there.


There is another 5k Fun Run taking place in East Glasgow in the summer. I’m hoping to get a group of the refugee guys involved. It would be a great way to make contact in the community and a positive way to bring attention to the refugee and asylum issue. More information on that as the time approaches...


Me standing proud with my NG5K medal and shirt. Unfortunately, they ran out of my size, so the fit was a bit snugger than I would have liked (admittedly, not my most fetching look).

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Friday, April 24, 2009

An arrival and a visitor

The issues refugees and asylum seekers face are fertile ground for artistic interpretation; the experience of loss, displacement, finding home, and marginalisation are common human experiences that are felt in extreme by those who have been displaced. This applies to current topics of debate relating to the current asylum situation in the UK. As recent Booker Prize lists suggest (e.g. The Inheritance of Loss, The Reluctant Fundamentalist, and to some extent, Darkmans), how the stranger responds to the surrounding culture is a hot topic. Similarly, the comedy of Steven Amos, Omid Djalili, and Shappi Khorsandi poke fun at issues of immigration, but make serious points about the racism and misunderstanding that exists under the thin veneer of political correctness.

This is a long way say that art allows us to address such issues in a way that adds colour and dimension, something that debates about statistics and government policy cannot manage on their own. And while knowing the bare facts of the worldwide refugee crisis is important, a good photograph (have a look at http://www.exileimages.co.uk) can offer a narrative to otherwise abstract statistics that move our hearts in way that fosters empathy.

We’ve recently came across two very different artistic forays into refugee situation that are worth mention.

The first is a children’s picture book, The Arrival, by Shaun Tan. It is, on the surface, a simple story of a refugee who flees danger for a new land. The story is told purely through illustration. The wordless character of the story is, in my mind, what gives this book such power. The reader is drawn into the story, imagining their own dialogue and emotions when faced with the illustrations; this offers the story a certain timeless quality; as experience shapes us, our reaction to the images will also develop. The story will mature with the reader.

When the protagonist arrives in the strange land, the reader can easily identify with him: not understanding the strange script, being simultaneously in awe and fear of the fantastic surroundings, and trying to make sense of a foreign system.


As for the images themselves, they are breathtakingly beautiful. Any page would look fantastic framed on a wall. Tan has a gift for creating images that are at once familiar and otherworldly: he used photographs of Malaysian immigrants coming to Australia in the 1960s, as well as the influx of immigrants to New York at the turn of the century, as the starting point for some of his images. The opening illustration of the shadow of a dragon’s tail, as a family rushes down an alleyway, realistically and subtly portrays the fear many refugees face (this is skilfully achieved without reverting to the easier option of picturing violence). A huge variety of human emotion is captured in the story. The inclusion of playfulness and humour through the imaginary creatures alleviates the mood without taking away from the seriousness of the issues. It’s a wonderful book that I cannot recommend highly enough.


The other is an American film called The Visitor, directed by Thomas McCarthy. It’s the story of a university professor, Walter, whose life is altered by becoming friends with a Syrian refugee who is illegally living in an apartment that Walter never uses. We see the professor develop as a charter, from numb and detached, to a rejuvenated joy in life, and eventuallty to righteous anger about the treatment of his newfound friend.

The film is very funny (in an understated way) and portrays characters that seem all the more realistic due to their idiosyncrasies. Importantly, the film causes the viewer to engage with moral ‘grey areas’ when immigration law is pitted against particular circumstances and personal relationship. The Visitor also captures the sense of frustration and powerlessness that Emma and I have often experienced working with refugees. Like Walter, we rail try to rail against and change the system, but in some situations we can only listen and are faced with saying goodbye to people who have become dear friends. A poignant picture of the human aspect of the asylum debate.

The Arrival and The Visitor, both worth checking out.

- Paul

The illustrations in this post come from Shaun Tan's website. More images from the The Arrival and his other books can be found via this link: http://www.shauntan.net/books/the-arrival.html

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Friday, April 17, 2009

"So throw those curtains wide, one day like this a year would do me right..."


Guy Garvey’s lyrics seem particularly appropriate for this time of year. The cold and dark days of winter are slowly becoming memory as the sun sets later and later each day. Daffodils are in bloom all over the city, giving a joyful splash of colour to the most unlikely places.

The schools have been closed for a couple weeks over Easter. The projects at St. Rollox and Tron St. Mary’s were also closed for the break: the crèche is linked to the local schools, so there would be no childcare for project volunteers, one reason for the closure. This break from the normal schedule offered us an opportunity to do things with our friends here that we may not have time for otherwise. Aside from extra home visits, we had time for some special outings.

We had the opportunity to take one refugee family on a day-trip to the island of Cumbrae, not far from Glasgow. This was the first time they had been outside the city, after being here for nearly a year (if you've spent time in Sighthill, it's clear this would leave a negative impression of the country). Luckily, the weather obliged and they were able to see the Scottish countryside at its finest. The family was able to relax and enjoy themselves, as well as recognise the more positive aspects of their new home in Scotland.

Later in the week, we took the families of some children who attend the Wednesday after school club at Tron St. Mary’s. We took a bus up to the Blair Drummond Safari Park and spent the day marvelling at exotic animals, feeding horses and llamas, and enjoying the other attractions. Perhaps the best thing about this trip is that it was something the whole family could enjoy. So we spent quality time getting to better know the mothers and fathers of children who are regular attendees at the after school club.

Through all of this, we were able to express some of the joy that comes with the good news of resurrection.


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Wednesday, April 01, 2009

Backgammon á la mode

Last week, during my weekly backgammon game, I was given something very special: a Kurdish headdress. I think it was originally put on me as a bit of a joke, but I looked so fetching that my friend told me to keep it. Apparently, it makes me look like a Kurdish commando (I hope that’s a compliment). I was quite touched to receive the gift, the garment was obviously the product of fine craftsmanship.

For those of you who know backgammon, you’ll notice that by the position of the pieces that I was losing badly; as is usually the case when I face this particular opponent.

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Thursday, March 26, 2009

Re: Threatened Deportations

Last month, Emma wrote a blog about the anxiety caused by threatened deportations. This recent report in the Independent is a stark reminder that the fear our friends experience is not unfounded, but often a matter of life or death.

Sent back by Britain. Executed in Darfur

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Saturday, March 21, 2009

Busy times

It has been a busy couple of weeks, but encouraging.

Last night Paul played football with a very mixed group of guys (1 Greek/Italian/American, 1 Irish, 3 Afghans, 1 Iranian, 1 Rwandan, 1 Kurdish). Thankfully, everyone seems to have got on well and had a good time. I think their footballing skills and styles varied widely as did their situations. The guys from Afghanistan have only been here about a month, and at least one of them looks incredibly young. They have been coming to the cafe at one of the local churches regularly, although they live some distance away. Our initial contact with them came through another young Afghan man who has been here a little longer.

Please pray for this little group. At least one of them is a serious seeker, if not already a believer, but communication is limited. He is working hard on his English and keen to get involved in a Bible Study / discipleship course. None of the programmes which might have had Farsi speakers have worked out with his schedule and we are trying to discern whether Paul and a member of another local ministry should take the plunge to start a group themselves, and trust God for the linguistic challenges. Potentially, this could include a couple of local Scottish guys who are at various stages in their journey.

Paul has also been making great use of his DIY skills this week, helping to do a few running repairs in the home of one of our African friends. His computer skills are used frequently too and both have opened doors allowing us to get to know some of the families with whom we had only minimal conact previously. We really must acknowledge the foresight of the Bible College tutor who bought us a toolkit as a wedding gift 5 years ago!
I continue to use some of my advocacy skills in various ways at the grassroots level where having someone to speak on your behalf can sometimes make a big difference. Frustratingly for me, as I like being able to fix things, there are frequently times when there is no answer until the injustices are challenged at an insitutional level. But love never gives up.

Finally for now, we'd ask you to pray for the area that we live in, for the Scottish residents. It is a sad area in a lot of ways. People are trapped; trapped in social problems and habits that they inherited from other generations but that few seem willing to search for a way out of. This past couple of weeks, there have been a number of sad incidents, one of which resulted in the death of a young man of just 19. For the Muslim refugees in particular, being on the margins of such a society frequently reinforces their desire not to integrate, but to remain separate from what they believe is Western (read "Christian") society. It also increases their anxiety about the safety of living here and reinforces the social isolation of some. For all of the segments of this fractured society, they need to hear that gentle whisper of hope.
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Saturday, March 07, 2009

It's Official

Our ministry is now listed on the International Teams Refugee Ministry website. We feel very offical now.

Click here to see our little space on itrefmin.org
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Thursday, March 05, 2009

Snowfall


We’ve just had some more snow in Scotland. Nothing like it was three weeks ago, but it has been significantly colder this week, a small reminder that spring has not yet arrived.The snow this morning reminded me of a good experience last time it snowed.

I was out in the evening visiting some Iraqi friends in Sighthill. When it was time to head home, there was about four inches of snow lying on the ground. Most people were trying to get inside as quick as possible, we stayed outside in the cold and had a brilliant snowball fight. It might seem rather insignificant, but the guys have been through a very difficult time recently, so it was wonderful to see them enjoying themselves, forging some good memories in Glasgow.I’ve posted some pictures below of Glasgow in the evening snow.

- Paul



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Thursday, February 26, 2009

Greece update

Please click on the link below to see something of the current situation for refugees, particularly from Afghanistan, in Greece. A group from Helping Hands visited the port of Patras last week and were overwhelmed by the needs.

Click Here

to read text only report or click on the link there to also see photos.
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Tuesday, February 24, 2009

I’m going to prison…

...to visit detainees (thought that title might catch your attention). Detention centres are a very controversial aspect of current UK asylum policy. Dungavel is the only detention centre in Scotland and detainees are taken there for a variety of reasons: coming to the end of the asylum process and awaiting removal, being in breach of Home Office reporting conditions or thought to be at risk of absconding, and criminal convictions being a few. Many of those awaiting removal have no idea how long they are going to be detained and live in a perpetual state of fear and anxiety about their future and possible removal back to countries that they fled. Due to public outcry, the government have stopped the detention of children and families at Dungavel, though there is concern whether the Home Office is really committed to abandoning this policy (click here to read a report from the Sunday Herald).

Clearly detention has a psychological toll on the detainees. By visiting them, they have the opportunity to talk about their struggles and have somebody actually take the time to listen to them. It also means that, as a visitor, we can supply detainees with items that can connect them with the outside world: phone cards, newspapers, contacts details for lawyers, etc. It's not much, but it is something.

It is possible that some of detainees might be in the detention centre for questionable reasons, but this doesn’t mean that God loves them any less; God’s grace extends uncomfortably. Such is the nature of grace: scandalously undeserved by all. Prisoners have a special place in Jesus’ inaugural address (cf. Lk 4:18), biblical books were written from prison cells, and many Biblical figures faced captivity: Joseph, Samson, Jeremiah, Micaiah, Zedekiah, Daniel, John the Baptist, Peter, James, John, Silas, Paul, Epaphras, Aristarchus, Junia, and even Jesus, who was held in custody between his arrest and crucifixion (homeless, a convicted criminal, and the child of a refugee family... the cynical thought has occurred to me that certain sections of the tabloid press, which purport to defend “traditional Christian values”, have lost sight of this).

I’m looking forward to this opportunity, please pray as I step into an area that is outside of my experience.

- Paul
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Thursday, February 19, 2009

Progress Report

Hello, this is the sick Mr. Wilson. I got some antibiotics from the doctor and they seem to be taking effect... the eczema has also retreated, the blisters drying up into hard yellow patches (yes, it’s lovely).

I don’t deserve any sympathy though – while Emma was away in Lodon, I worked too much. Going flat out from 9am to 11:30pm, then working again early the next morning wasn’t the best idea. I already knew this, but the point was driven home: this is not a one person job! Hopefully I’ve learned my lesson.

*****

I was given a brilliant book for my Brithday: Extending the Table. It’s a Mennonite cookbook that’s essentially a continuation of their equally brilliant More-with-Less. One of the things I really appreciate about these books is not only that they give good and cost-effective recipes, but also explore the theological and spiritual implications of how we use food. Sharing meals, giving and receiving hospitality, are major aspects of our ministry in Glasgow, so these books are full of apt advice and suggestions.

There was a touching story in the forward of Extending the Table that I’d like to share:

...our interest was to seek his counsel on how... mission and service organisations should work in the years ahead. We asked how, in Argentina or the neighbouring counties, he would begin to share the gospel with other indigenous people who do not have churches among them. He paused for a moment, and then responded, "I would go and eat their food." He began to weep, and the missionary couple who were our translators wept with him... we knew that these forty-year missionaries and their colleagues had acknowledged the dignity of the indigenous people of the Chaco by eating their food, sleeping in their houses, and learning and recording their languages.
- Paul Longcre, 1990

It’s humbling and encouraging to learn that much of what we’re doing is not new, but part of a tradition of hospitality as a missional activity.

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Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Musings

Mr Wilson is a little bit sick this week. His body decided to celebrate its 27th birthday with an inuagural outbreak of eczema (on his hands), combined with a rather nasty chest infection.

I attended a very helpful conference in London last week, hosted by the Refugee Highway Partnership. Lots of helpful teaching, networking and hearing how others are ministering in their own contexts. I also had an encouraging meeting today with a Christian Counselling Institute in the city who seem willing to offer counselling to a small number of refugees whom we refer to them.

Other than that, I have been pondering an issue that came up at the drop-in today. It's easy to help some people; they're nice about how they ask and they are very grateful for the help that you give. They ask in a way that you find acceptable from your cultural frame of reference. It makes you feel useful to help them (generally warm and fuzzy) and once you have done what was asked of you, they leave you alone to enjoy feeling good about yourself. Others are not so simple. They get in your face, they phone repeatedly, they're demanding or downright rude and seem less than grateful for what you manage to provide....you get the picture.
How often have we decided to help those whose way of asking was more acceptable to us, to ignore that person who has an annoying way about them and to deem them less deserving or less in need because they are less grateful? It seems to me that God's grace must reach to those who are annoying, demanding and harder to help, that it has extended to us when we have approached him in a way that closely resembles the hard to help. Not that we simply pander to demands but that we seek to remain in relationships that by God's grace may prove to be transformative, that our patience does not run out and we do not write people off because they make us feel less good about ourselves. It's a challenge. I'd rather help those who say please and thank-you, and don't phone me after 9pm. But somehow I don't think grace and mercy are limited to those with nice British manners.

- Emma
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Thursday, February 05, 2009

Threatened deportations

Glasgow is covered in a thin layer of snow, and the temperature is hovering around freezing. The unpleasant weather has coincided with a perceived new harsher policy within the Home Office that has led to many families that we know fearing detention and deportation. In the past few weeks, the goverment has been ordering those with families to bring the children with them when they make their weekly trip to sign on at the Home Office. This often means that the family will be detained, pending deportation back to their country of origin. (This method replaced the dawn raids to a large extent after a major public backlash in Scotland.)
We know of around 6 families who have recently been told to bring the children with them, and it instills terror in them as their appointment approaches. Some have complied and have been greatly relieved to not be detained but their sense of fear and insecurity that the Home Office has something planned, is not alleviated. One single parent who escaped a situation of domestic abuse was required to attend with her children this week. One of her children was ill and the doctor gave her a note, but it may only have postponed what the Home Office has decided. The fear in this lady's voice was all too evident as she explained the situation to me on the phone. For another lady and her young son, this is a sadly familiar situation. They have been detained in the past and were only released when bail was posted by those connected with a local church. Her son is clearly traumatised by that experience and has only begun to recover. There is a clear risk to the lives of some of these families if they are returned to their countries. For others, the risk to the well-being of their children through removal from school, detention and return to a country they know nothing about, is severe. The knock-on effects for other families in similar situations is also palpible. Empty chairs in a classroom take on a much greater significance.

Please pray for those imposing these policies to look with compassion on these people, to see their own sons and daughters when they look at the children and to act with mercy.
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Thursday, January 29, 2009

Fame at last

We've just experienced our 15 minutes of fame. Through a chance encounter we became models for the "Burns Bunnet". You might want to check this out:

www.burnsbunnet.co.uk

Copy and paste the above link into your browser.
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Wednesday, January 28, 2009

It’s moments like these...

We recently enjoyed a visit from our good friends, and former teammates, the Cottrell family en route back to Athens. It was great to catch up with them. As a parting gift, they left us with a bag of Australian sweets. This wrapper on a Minties sweet seemed particularly relevant given current events:

We had two flat tyres in the space of a week. The first tyre had been slashed. The second tyre had a slow puncture, but I have the feeling in might have been deliberate given our car recent car trouble. Before we left for Ireland, somebody had pulled off our wing mirror and then threw it under the car... I’m thankful that nothing more serious has happened, but petty vandalism is still frustrating.

But every cloud has a sliver lining (this being Glasgow, we have those in abundance). I was having trouble changing the tyre and one of our neighbours noticed and came out with a heavier-duty chrome ratchet. Neither of us could budge the nuts – they had been fastened so tightly that we nearly lifted the car off the ground with our combined strength (this helped my pride a bit, as I wasn’t the only one too weak to change the tyre). Anyway, I had a good chat with our neighbour and finally got to know somebody else in our building. It helped keep me the incident in perspective; car trouble can have its advantages.

I found this photo of us (and my sister) and the Cottrells from our trip to Kalavyrta(Καλάβρυτα) last year. Actually, over a year ago. It seems like a lot less than that! Good memories of our time in Greece.

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Sunday, January 11, 2009

Worth more than 6,000 words...

Here's a few photos of the things going on at the St. Rollox Church of Scotland refugee and asylum seeker project in Sighthill. Soon I'll post some more pictures of our other activities.

Teaching computer skills and free internet access.
Refugees, asylum seekers, immigrants, and locals all browsing the charity shop for discounted goods.
Lunch break for volunteers (and their children!) after the charity shop.
Some dates and tea before English class. English class in session.
Us, just outside the Sighthill estate.

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Tuesday, January 06, 2009

Not boiling on "Arctic Monday"

Though I hate to make reference to the tabloids, The Sun dubbed yesterday "Arctic Monday" due to freezing temperatures across Britain. I felt the headline was apt given the general mood, as Christmas decorations come down and people return to work (or worse, worry that they may not be returning to work for much longer). The frosty weather also coincided with equally cold reports from major retailers about losses and potential job cuts.

It’s also fitting that on one of the coldest days in Glasgow so far this winter, is when our boiler decides to stop working. At the moment, we’re without heating or hot water (using the kettle as a replacement for the shower is an interesting experience). The gas technician is currently in the kitchen trying to fix it... I initially thought it was a simple problem with the pilot light, but given the exasperated sighs I’m hearing, it might be something a bit more complicated.

The change in weather and rising fuel costs has also been difficult for many of our refugee friends (many of whom are much more accustomed to a warmer climate). Late winter fuel supplements are causing great stress and the wet and chilly weather is felt even more by those with ailments. As a result, the winter is a time when many refugees struggle with experiencing isolation.

One of the primary ways we’re trying to minister to refugees this winter is through hospitality: hosting, visiting, sharing meals. This may sound like something rather modest, but one of the major needs expressed by refugees in our area is that they feel socially isolated. I would go so far as to say that hospitality is the core practice our ministry here. A number of programmes exist to assist refugees in Glasgow, but they are no replacement for genuine human contact. One of our current projects is trying to gather a group of local volunteers who can commit to hosting and/or visiting refugees at least every other week – it’s an exciting opportunity. We’ll keep you informed as this ministry develops.

Well, the technician has just finished replacing a number of parts on our boiler (he says, "that should keep it working for a while", I hope he’s right), so I can finally head off to the drop-in at St. Rollox.

P.

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Friday, December 19, 2008

Advent Thoughts


We’re already nearly through the third week of Advent. We hit the ground running upon our return from the US; we’ve helped out at a number of Christmas programmes, visited some refugee families, spent time getting to know and discussing ministry with Paul Sydnor (our Associate Ministry Leader from International Teams), and I’ve attempted to fix an Algerian family’s computer on two separate occasions (unsuccessfully).

So Advent is supposed to be a time of expectant waiting; yet as I rush from one activity to the next, the discipline of waiting seems incongruous. I came across this advent reflection by Rowan Williams this afternoon and it served as a healthy reminder:

We remember in Advent the time of waiting before the birth of Jesus, and we remember that time of waiting as the Bible shows it to us as a time when people were indeed longing for something that would change everything, and yet at the same time not quite knowing what that something would be.

...It's been said so often it hardly needs saying again, but it is rather a pity that for a few weeks before Christmas we are saturated with Christmas carols. We don't have quite the sort of quiet we need to think, 'Well what would it be if Jesus really came as if for the first time into my life? What would it be for the good news really to change me.' Because for that to happen I need some reflective time; I need some peace; I need to slow down; I need, you might say, to take my time about things. And so all those bits of our contemporary culture which are about rushing to get gratification, getting the results straight away, all those habits in our culture which so drive the crises of our culture, whether it's the credit crunch or the environmental crisis, all those things we have to cast a rather cold eye on during Advent and say slow down, take time, let yourself grow and open up, rather like a flower coming to blossom - a time of expectation, a time of excitement, a time of waiting, a time of peace, a time where we're clearing our hearts and our minds a bit so we really can see clearly when Jesus arrives, and feel fully the impact of his coming.


(if you’d like to see the entire piece, follow this link: http://www.archbishopofcanterbury.org/2040)

Many of the refugees (especially the Muslims) are fascinated by all the activity that surrounds Christmas. The city of Glasgow is adorned with decorations (equally tasteful and tacky in parts), people flock to the shops, and their children are involved in Christmas crafts and activities at school. Part of me wants to enjoy the atmosphere that springs up this time of year. I find the pessimism and moaning about how "it’s not the way it should be" just as contrary to the meaning of advent as is consumerist excess. Hope, not dread, is implicit in Advent. So in that spirit, I want enjoy some of the events put on by city; Advent is an exciting time, so why not celebrate in some way? However, on the other hand, I find myself a bit embarrassed by how shallow and silly aspects of Christmas here can be. For example: a ‘High School Musical’ Advent calendar containing cheap chocolate... no comment is necessary.

So how do I bear witness to the real meaning of Christmas to my refugee friends when there is so much in our culture that I don’t want to affirm? It is a difficult question. I think we must try to exhibit joy as we look forward to celebrating the incarnation – an authentic joy that transcends and surpasses materialism. I also think we have to maintain that we are critical of our culture, but without slipping into an easy pessimism and gloom. "And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, full of grace and truth" – what a compelling reason to be joyful!

P.
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Sunday, December 07, 2008
We're back in Glasgow. Trying to get over some serious jet-lag, and keeping warm in sub-zero temperatures! It was a great trip back to the States where we enjoyed spending time with friends and family. Importantly, we were able to visit Paul's Grandfather whose health had been worsening and who sadly passed away as we were on our way to the airport to catch our flight home. Please pray for especially for Paul's Grandmother. There will be a memorial service in California in February.

We thought you might be interested in the following BBC report regarding the situation in Athens. There is a brief clip from the ARC, as well as a comment from a great friend of ours. Click on the link below:

BBC report on Athens

-Emma
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Thursday, November 13, 2008

Travelling


We’re heading to the States on Sunday morning for a little while. We’ll be celebrating Thanksgiving with Paul’s family, and also spending time with extended family, friends and supporters. The trip has "snuck up on us" in some ways. It always felt like it was a long time away, and then we suddenly got busy with things here...

So an update on what we have been spending our time on, apart from the drop-ins that have become a regular feature of our week. We have been very pleased to have made a lot of family visits in these past few weeks. Family visits usually involve around 3 or 4 hours of time spent in the home of one of the refugee families. We usually take a gift, such as olive oil, fruit juice, soft drinks and / or some treats for the kids. We share a delicious meal together (Turkish, Iraqi, Assyrian, Kurdish foods are all delicious) and may help with the kids with some homework, play games with them, get to know their situation and stories a little better and just generally spend quality time. One older couple are particularly at risk of social isolation and depression, compounded by a list if health problems. The lady informed us during the week "From the very first time you came, we have loved you. I don’t know why. Maybe it’s because you remind us of our children." This is the second time an Iraqi lady has decided to adopt me.

Oftentimes, it’s an opportunity for some of these families to ask for assistance with very practical needs. Letters from government departments or from school, for example, are sometimes only partially understood, or the action required in response may not be possible with their level of English. Having been on the other side of this difficulty in Greece and Egypt, we are only too willing to try to help. The training that I am receiving at the North Glasgow Advice Centre is also proving invaluable in knowing our way around the incredibly complex systems here and knowing who else is available to help with special expertise. Little things like this can make a significant difference.

On several family visits, I am also taking advantage of the opportunity to learn how to cook some of the different foods that we so enjoy. It gives me a chance to get into the kitchen with the ladies, expand my culinary repertoire and sometimes the ladies open up more fully during these times for various reasons.

We are also deepening relationships with those who are regulars at the drop-in centres. We are saddened by the threatened deportation of one family and discouraged with the lack of progress for one lady trying to find a way to bring the rest of her children to join her here from the Horn of Africa. We are relieved at the continued bail of one African lady and her son whose case is being re-examined. Each week at the after-school club reinforces our feeling that many of these children simply crave the positive attention of an adult. Some are separated from one parent for a variety of reasons. For others, their parents are simply too busy trying to survive and provide to be able to offer the attention that they really crave.

Paul’s Arabic lesson continued this week and he is also having very in-depth discussions over coffee and backgammon with an Iranian friend.

As we’ll be away for three weeks, unfortunately we won’t be able to update this as much as we would like, but you should still be able to contact us by e-mail.
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